Just a few of those extra bits of fabric |
*Minimalism has an interesting relationship with the old idea of 'a place for everything and everything in its place'; but I think the latter idea is more conducive to creating a house with room to collect those empty jamjars that I crave.
Multi-tasking is not getting a good press either, and I saw some report showing that it actually causes us psychological harm, and also makes results from all the tasks juggled less likely to be successful, which is fairly predictable. You are more likely to burn the bread if you are also writing an article at the same time, especially if you can't remember where the oven timer is and you can't find it because it is hidden in clutter because you are not a minimalist.
So the best life is maybe one in which you sit surrounded by your many possessions, concentrating on one thing. This used to be what men did when they got home from work: they would sit reading the paper in an armchair with dog and slippers while dinner was cooked, then they would go and eat it. The woman who cooked it was perhaps reasonably happy in the kitchen, secure in the knowledge that she was at least doing what society expected of her. (Fulfilling expectations can be a source of satisfaction that can rival making the most of one's talents, I think; I speak as one to whom fulfilling expectations matters quite a lot, whatever it looked like from the outside on a Wednesday afternoon when I had gone to windsurf on the lake [those were the days!] rather than cleaning the vicarage, going out lecturing, or whatever else people thought I ought to be doing.)
I'm not advocating such rigidity of life & demarcation of roles, but sometimes I envy it, the feeling that one might at any moment feel to be 'doing the right thing'. (Oh yes, I stand in need of some high-strength Zen to make me feel I am doing the right thing in the present moment at least, tortured soul that I am).
Bathroom with previous wobbly plastic bath side |
Lovely real wood bath side |